(Q) said:
But the contradictions are imposed by people's perceptions, which are not restricted to religion and which can be changed by education and reform
No, the contradictions are ignored by those who refuse to acknowledge them. If reformation was required that would show that the religion is flawed or false. Education will not help unless the contradictions are acknowledged.
Because that IS my philosophy.
Don't you mean the philosophy in which you designed from Islam? Are you trying to tell me that you follow Islam to the letter? And what is so different from the philosophy you embrace and a philosophy not of a religion?
I might for all you know; my question is why is it anyone else's business?
It would be everyones business if those beliefs were crammed down their throats, or were used in decision making processes that affected other people's lives, which is the issue with religion.
If my philosophy helps me to lead the kind of life that is desirable to me (and not undesirable to society), it makes no difference what I do or do not believe in. Otherwise, it is plain and simple discrimination.
If the philosophy you hold includes that which IS undesirable to society and does in fact discriminate, then it does make a difference.