It might be different if you lived in an Arabic country, and being called a Kaffir meant you would be discriminated against.
Then the K word is like an N word, isn't it.
No more than calling someone a Christian is in France, I would say. The term kafir is primarily [all self confessed linguistic "experts" aside] used for those who reject the tenets of Islam. Its used even by Muslims against those Muslims when they feel that they do not follow some tenet of Islam as determined by doctrine. So it means literally someone who rejects the tenets of Islam. GeoffP qualifies as a kafir unless he has been lying in all his posts to date. Although, if he is offended by being called a kafir one can only assume that he has decided that he no longer opposes the tenets of Islam.
Its quite quite silly to say its used by some Bantu tribe for nomenclature or by white racists against black South Africans and so it is a pejorative. There is also kaffir lime and kitchen kaffirs and context, really, is very important when considering the English language.
In American slang, a "lemon" is a car that causes more trouble that it is worth, as in "I bought a car from that dealership, but it turned out to be a lemon."
In Australian slang, a "lemon" is a lesbian (originally just a sour woman), as in "This town seems full of lemons."
In Cockney rhyming slang, a "lemon" is a favor -" lemon flavour" - as in "Gi' us a lemon, mate."
In fan fiction, a 'lemon' is a scene or story that includes explicitly described sex.
A lemon is any unexpectedly defective or undesirable thing or person, usually said of bad choices, as in "We picked a lemon when we chose that guy," or of unsellable cars ( in the motor trade), or new-bought cars that develop mysterious serial problems. To hand someone a lemon is to swindle.
A lemon is also a slang tearm used in fanfictions to warn of sexually explicit material.
lemon=sex
lime=close, but no sex
yaoi= male on male
yuri=girl on girl
slash-or a / put between names=same sex relationship
No more than calling someone a Christian is in France, I would say. The term kafir is primarily [all self confessed linguistic "experts" aside] used for those who reject the tenets of Islam. Its used even by Muslims against those Muslims when they feel that they do not follow some tenet of Islam as determined by doctrine. So it means literally someone who rejects the tenets of Islam.
I find it highly offensive that westerners make pejoratives out of foreign language terms. It smacks of racism. Yes yes we know the original meaning is something else, but in English its a bad word!
Its a bad word because white racists determined it is? After using it as a pejorative because they didn't know any better?
You mean if a Muslim calls someone a non-Muslim who rejects the tenets of Islam, this is an insult to the non-Muslim? Hmm that an interesting POV. Do you feel insulted by the notion that you do not embrace Islam?
In recent times it is more of a "discriminatory" term against "unbelievers", "disbelievers" or "non-believers" in the Islamic faith. Muslim scholars have discouraged its use due to the Quran's command to use kind words.[2]
Sheikh Muhammad Al-Mukhtar Al-Shinqiti (2005). "General Fatwa Session". Living Shariah > Live Fatwa. Islamonline.net. http://www.islamonline.net/servlet/...sh-AAbout_Islam/AskAboutIslamE/AskAboutIslamE. Retrieved 2007-02-23. The scholar quotes Al-Baqarah 2: 83.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kafir
Prohibition on celebrating the festivals of the kuffaar
Is it permissible for Muslims to take part in their festivals, such as Christmas?
Praise be to Allaah.
It is not permissible for the Muslim to join the kuffaar in their festivals and to express joy and happiness on these occasions, or to take the day off work, whether the occasion is religious or secular, because this is a kind of imitating the enemies of Allaah, which is forbidden, and a kind of co-operating with them in falsehood. It was proven that the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Whoever imitates a people is one of them.” And Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):
“Help you one another in Al‑Birr and At‑Taqwa (virtue, righteousness and piety); but do not help one another in sin and transgression. And fear Allaah. Verily, Allaah is Severe in punishment”[al-Maa\'idah 5:2]
We advise you to refer to the book Iqtidaa’ al-Siraat al-Mustaqeem by Shaykh al-Islam Ibn Taymiyah (may Allaah have mercy on him), for it is very useful on this topic. [Translator’s note: This book is available in English under the title “The Right Way,” published by Darussalam, Riyadh].
And Allaah is the source of strength. May Allaah bless our Prophet Muhammad and his family and companions, and grant them peace.
Standing Committee on Academic Research and Issuing Fatwas, Fatwa no. 2540
http://www.islam-qa.com/en/cat/2021#3019
No, I feel insulted that it's delivered as an insult; that I, because I am not a Mohammedan, am somehow an "unbeliever" in God. I think you should probably talk to the Muslim religious authorities that gustav alludes to if you think it's really not offensive: according to him the term is being discouraged. Hard to imagine why.
Anyway, have a dekko around and see what the common usage is. Good hunting.
Don't be silly, since when I have ascribed to any "religious authorities" in Islam?
I'm interested more in why you are offended if recognised as someone who rejects the tenets of Islam.
1. Kafir means one who rejects.
'Kafir' is derived from the word 'kufr', which means to conceal or to reject. In Islamic terminology, 'Kafir' means one who conceals or rejects the truth of Islam and a person who rejects Islam is in English called a 'non-Muslim'.
2. If non-Muslims are hurt - they should accept Islam.
If any non-Muslim considers the word 'Kafir' i.e. 'non-Muslim' as an abuse, he may choose to accept Islam and then we will stop referring to him as or call him a kafir i.e. a non-Muslim.
http://www.a1realism.com/ENGLISH/misunderstand/faq5.htm
Guiding a Non-Muslim to Islam only possible by the Grace of God. Our job is to help others understand Islam – that is our basic duty. And only then inshallah, will non-muslims move in the direction of becoming one of us. We must remain positive, open-minded and generous in our efforts to convey the true message.
You cannot encourage a non-muslim to be understanding and open-minded if you yourself are hot-tempered and hurling accusations at him/her. No non-muslim is going to respect you and it will certainly reflect badly on Islam if a Muslim, a representative of Islam, is narrow-minded.
http://islamgreatreligion.wordpress.com/2009/06/29/be-careful-who-you-call-a-kafir/
Maybe you should check in with everyone else then, because lots of others do. Just a suggestion.
A little early in the day for trolling, isn't it? Sun's hardly over the yardarm yet.
Did you see those other posts of mine above? No comment?
CHAPTER 1
OF KAFIRS AND ZIMMIS
All non-Moslems are infidels. However, there are gradations. The people of the Book (meaning the Bible, both the old and the new testaments) are the Jews, the Christians and the Moslems. According to Islam, Mohammed was the last prophet and there would be no other future prophet or prophets.
The Jews and Christians are considered as people of little faith by the followers of Islam. On the other hand, the Buddhists, the Hindus, the Jains, the Sikhs, the Zoroastrians, the Taoists, in fact, all other religions are considered as the religions of the kafirs. They are the worst of all and do not have the right to exist in this world unless of course they accept Islam unconditionally.
http://islamreview.org/korankafir/chapter1.html