Ok, so most people die when jumping from the 220 foot Golden Gate Bridge. But jumping from 20 feet is safe (into water of course). How high is too high? 80ft? 120ft? I don't know enough physics to calculate any forces or speeds, and whatnot, so I don't know the answer. (assume the person lands feet first).
Since you're trying to calculate the best case, feet-first is not it. If nothing else, the pressure of the water bursting up into your nose can cause brain damage. So at least let the person do a perfect dive and enter the water in the best possible attitude. The advantage of setting the problem up this way is that it will probably generate the most interest: What is the maximum distance an Olympic diver could survive?
We may not be able to get good data on the force of the impact. Even if we do, there is another factor that might outweigh it, so let's look into it and see what kind of a limit it provides.
You hit the water in a perfect diving posture, which means that the both the force of the impact and the effect of the viscosity of the water once you're submerged are
minimized. As a result you will continue
descending very rapidly until you can turn yourself around and head back up. Do you see where I'm going with this? You might run out of oxygen and drown before you can reach the surface!
So what you need to figure out is: at what speed can you hit the water, and reverse your descent in time to reach the surface alive? Those Acapulco cliff divers "cheat" by spreading their arms to slow their fall with wind resistance, but if they didn't their speed upon impact would be something like 75mph. They land in 12 feet of water and manage to stop and rise back out before they hit their heads on the bottom. I don't know the formulas for viscosity. If they hit the water as 150mph, how deep would the water have to be? How about at 300mph? What distance can an Olympic swimmer cover--upward, aided by buoyancy--in the 90 seconds of air he has in his lungs, or whatever the world record is for that? For the sake of argument we'll say he doesn't have to worry about delaying his inhalation till the last moment, adding another factor to the problem, because the fall will only take four or five seconds.
Remember that there is a maximum free-fall velocity for any object due to the viscosity of air. I think for a human body it's around 400mph.
So here's the way I would state the problem: If an Olympic athlete dives from a high enough platform that he has reached maximum free-fall velocity when he hits the water, and survives the impact, how far down will he go before he can reverse direction? How long will it take him to stop descending and swim to the surface? Can he hold his breath that long?
If he can, then this formulation of the problem is no good. We will have proven that under ideal circumstances any dive is survivable. But if he can't, then we can work backwards to compute the maximum distance from platform to water.
I've seen on Mythbusters once where they fired several rifles into a swimming pool. Only the slowest muzzle velocities got past 20 feet in the water, or something like that, when fired at an angle of (30degrees? i forgot). This makes a lot of sense because the water slaps back really hard. The most powerful rifles had their bullets disintegrate once they touched the water.
I don't know whether bullets have ideal streamlining. But in any case the fastest ones are traveling at supersonic speed. This is triple the velocity of any human diver and probably quadruple that of an untrained person who just jumps and falls.