Ms Rowling: insightful critic of gender policy or myopic [insult]

Agreed that she should not be "cancelled." But given how often she is quoted, interviewed and invited to speak, she has not been.

There's a tendency for people to get pushback when they cite an unpopular viewpoint - whether it's anti-trans rhetoric, Nazism, people should eat less meat, whatever. All too often, overly sensitive types characterize this pushback as "being cancelled." But as long as the person being "cancelled" is loudly complaining about it, and people like yourself are echoing that - they are, by definition, not being cancelled.

As I have said before, she's a member of an older generation, one whose Overton window simply cannot move to allow trans rights. Her opinion is, of course, as valid as anyone else's - if somewhat bigoted.
Yes. By and large, talk of "cancelling" is pretty much a strawman. No one is being silenced or censored, and those who have, say, lost positions or their "standing" within society are overwhelmingly people who have committed pretty heinous offenses which are ofttimes even criminal.

Then of course, there are those who do not lose any of these things; but rather, are rewarded with the presidency and positions within the president's cabinet
 
Racism and misogyny are very similar.
Though here I was more interested in the strawman-ish fixation on "cancelling" and suppression of speech and where it intersects with the curious confusion over whether something that may be true ought necessarily be said, simply because it is true. (I think? Honestly, I'm not even all that certain about what words ought to be italicized here.) As well as where such intersects with a sort of thought policing, wherein the "appropriate" attitude towards something is thrust upon certain subjects with (presumably) no consideration of the unique circumstances which may well inform these subjects' attitudes towards that something.
 
Long time no see, Konchog. Welcome back. May I ask what it was that prompted you to contribute to this particular discussion?
The email and the comment I quoted is what brought me in. As for JKR's views, I believe she can think whatever she likes, but I do not subscribe to them, and what she thinks has no bearing or influence on my life, or of the society, laws, or company I keep.
 
Racism and misogyny are very similar.
You do know there are people, black and white, who dislike transgender people.

You told us who you are.
Unlike you Tiassa, I don't lump everything has the same.
Your way, you end up with women raping men.
There are women Trump supporters too.
According to some here, support Trump, then you should kill yourself because you may be a rapist too.
You are a rape supporter; consequently, there is a very strong probability that you are a sexual assailant, as well.

You should kill yourself. You have absolutely no value to anyone or anything in this world. I'm a pragmatist.
And that was to a Trump supporter on this site.
After telling someone to kill their self, where does the 'discussion' go?
"seriously"
 
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Please do not insult other members.
How can this worthless fuckwit be so incomprehensibly stupid? For the millionth fucking time: A rape advocate is more likely to be a rapist, than is someone who is not a rape advocate. This... uh, person, I guess, is literally quoting the passage, and he can't even get it right.
 
billvon:
Agreed that she should not be "cancelled." But given how often she is quoted, interviewed and invited to speak, she has not been.
She has received death threats against herself and her family members. Her home address has been doxed by self-proclaimed "trans advocates" - basically far-left radicals. If this was coming from the political right, I think you might have a problem with it, but because it's coming from the left, you don't?

Rowling has also been inundated with vile rape threats against her, including from self-proclaimed "trans women" who have told her exactly where they want to stick their female penises.

There's a tendency for people to get pushback when they cite an unpopular viewpoint - whether it's anti-trans rhetoric, Nazism, people should eat less meat, whatever.
Do you think Rowling deserves the sort of "pushback" I just described above?

All too often, overly sensitive types characterize this pushback as "being cancelled."
Do you think Rowling is being "over-sensitive" when she complains about rape threats made against her and death threats made against her children?
But as long as the person being "cancelled" is loudly complaining about it, and people like yourself are echoing that - they are, by definition, not being cancelled.
Case in point. What the "trans activists" are trying to do here is to shut down debate. They aren't interested in hearing Rowling out. They don't want to talk the issues through. They want to shut her down.

You are aiding and abetting that agenda by characterising her voicing of her concerns as "loudly complaining". She is not making rape and death threats to anyone. Moreover, she is not "anti-trans", if that's what you think. Her concerns are not anti-trans bigotry. That is how the radicals characterise her to try to silence her, and - more generally - to try to silence anybody else with far less of a public profile than Rowling, who might dare to venture the "wrong" opinion.
As I have said before, she's a member of an older generation, one whose Overton window simply cannot move to allow trans rights.
She's a handful of years older than me. She is not and has never been against "trans rights", in general. She has specific concerns, not a general trans-phobia.

Perhaps you should find out what she actually thinks about these issues, rather than going off half cocked and running to join the radical lynch mob along with parmalee.

You're usually better than this, billvon. I'm surprised. I'm particularly surprised at your "people over 50 are too old to get with the zeitgeist and recognise trans rights" line. That's just a cheap shot, and you're wrong. How old are you?
Her opinion is, of course, as valid as anyone else's - if somewhat bigoted.
Tell me what particular opinions of hers are bigoted, according to you. Be specific.
 
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parmalee:
How I feel is not especially relevant to anything, and that's a known troll tactic--which presumably you know, yes?

You sound upset and angry about something, James, would you like to discuss it?

Probably. Though I suspect that you are insinuating, without evidence, that I am "telling lies" about something here--care to detail precisely what I have allegedly lied about?
Life's too short to entertain this kind of bullshit, parmalee. I invited you to give us your thoughts on the thread topic, but you want to make it all about you and your issues with me (whatever those are).

If you don't want to discuss the topic, just don't post in the thread. Okay?
Re: Rowling: As I've already stated (did you not read the thread, James?), she tends to undermine whatever legitimate concerns she may have by also regularly spouting just outright bigoted bullshit.
Examples, please. Be specific.
As for the rest, I consider history somewhat relevant generally and you have a history for posting some rather curious takes (to put it politely) on a number of contentious subjects...
You're trying to troll me. You should stop that. Taking stuff out of context and misquoting me won't help you.
 
Racism is important in discussing transsexualism because?

Did Ms Rowing say something about George Floyd or those cops?
Did Ms Rowing say something about slavery?
lump them all together, it makes the the cancelling process easier?
I think you've nailed it, foghorn.

When asked to put his money where his mouth is, parmalee came up blank. Apparently unable or unwilling to voice his concerns about Rowling and "trans rights", he cast some troll bait out to try to distract.
 
Moderator note: parmalee has been warned for repeated insulting other members, including in this thread.

"Worthless fuckwit" is not an appropriate form of address on sciforums. Try to keep it civil.
 
Case in point. What the "trans activists" are trying to do here is to shut down debate. They aren't interested in hearing Rowling out. They don't want to talk the issues through. They want to shut her down.

You are aiding and abetting that agenda by characterising her voicing of her concerns as "loudly complaining". She is not making rape and death threats to anyone. Moreover, she is not "anti-trans", if that's what you think. Her concerns are not anti-trans bigotry. That is how the radicals characterise her to try to silence her, and - more generally - to try to silence anybody else with far less of a public profile than Rowling, who might dare to venture the "wrong" opinion.
This is sorta why I started a thread. Your observation is appreciated.
 
billvon:

She has received death threats against herself and her family members. Her home address has been doxed by self-proclaimed "trans advocates" - basically far-left radicals. If this was coming from the political right, I think you might have a problem with it, but because it's coming from the left, you don't?
Nope. Death threats are unacceptable. But you were not talking about whether she is being treated unfairly - you are talking about her being "cancelled" which means removed from public discourse through boycotts and censorship. The opposite is true; she has a larger platform than ever, and her books are still selling.
Rowling has also been inundated with vile rape threats against her, including from self-proclaimed "trans women" who have told her exactly where they want to stick their female penises.

Again, such threats are not OK. I have not heard Rowling herself receiving such threats. The only references to that I've heard are vague fourth person accounts (from Rowling) who said that "she had been "appalled" to hear from various women who had spoken out on transgender issues, including those with no public profile, and suffered abuse including threats of rape."

What the "trans activists" are trying to do here is to shut down debate. They aren't interested in hearing Rowling out.

Those are two different things.

1) Shutting down debate. That has not happened, as this thread exemplifies.

2) Yes, a lot of people aren't interested in hearing her out. I am not interested in hearing a great many people out, for example, like Nazi sympathizers and Holocaust deniers. I suspect you feel the same way. That is an aspect of freedom, not cancel culture.

Tell me what particular opinions of hers are bigoted, according to you. Be specific.

Sure. She equates gender-affirming care to "conversion therapy" where gay people are threatened/abused/tortured to make them straight. That's akin to comparing mask mandates to the Holocaust (which has also been done.) Such comparisons are bigoted.

She has claimed that allowing trans people to live their lives is the same as "erasing sex." Again, a similar claim would be to claim that allowing people to marry other races "erases race." I also find that bigoted.
I'm particularly surprised at your "people over 50 are too old to get with the zeitgeist and recognise trans rights" line. That's just a cheap shot, and you're wrong. How old are you?

I didn't say that.

Many older people have trouble adjusting to the times; I've known several of them, including people in my family. Their Overton window simply cannot move that far. Younger people were born during a time when the Overton window has already moved; they grow up in a world where gay marriage and interracial marriage are simply the norm. Older people do not have that luxury.

I'm that age as well (late 50s) but my upbringing was a little different, so that window has been flexible for longer for me.
 
billvon:
Nope. Death threats are unacceptable.
I'm glad we agree on that much. On this point, you and our friend parmalee are not on the same page, which speaks well for you and poorly for him.
But you were not talking about whether she is being treated unfairly - you are talking about her being "cancelled" which means removed from public discourse through boycotts and censorship.
What I wrote was "Think what you like about trans people. However, the attempt by the rabid mob to cancel JR Rowling and anybody else who isn't on a particular ideological bandwagon actually raises important questions of freedom of speech and the importance of being able to have discussions."

I did not claim that Rowling has been removed from public discourse. It's not for lack of people trying to intimidate her into removing herself, though.

I also wrote: "Anybody who resorts to violent acts to try to prevent thoughtful people from speaking is a danger to civil society. Trying to shut down discussions you'd rather not have is not the way to go about changing hearts and minds. It's what fascists do."

Do you agree or disagree?

Again, such threats are not OK. I have not heard Rowling herself receiving such threats.
If you're interested, I urge you to listen to the podcast I mentioned. You can hear it from Rowling herself.
The only references to that I've heard are vague fourth person accounts (from Rowling) who said that "she had been "appalled" to hear from various women who had spoken out on transgender issues, including those with no public profile, and suffered abuse including threats of rape."
Are you saying you don't believe that Rowling is telling the truth when she reports that she has heard from other women who have received rape and death threats? Do you think she is just lying? Do you think she is unfairly demonising the kind-hearted souls who are trying to shut down speech about "trans rights"?

What would it take for you to believe that, in fact, other women have received such threats? I'm sure that first-hand accounts wouldn't be hard to find, if you were motivated to go look for them. Would you prefer to pretend it isn't happening?

Those are two different things.

1) Shutting down debate. That has not happened, as this thread exemplifies.
Like I said, it's not for want of trying on the part of radical "trans activists".

Any woman who voices similar concerns to Rowlings is labelled a "TERF", which stands for "Trans-exclusionary radical feminist". Protesters turn up to events organised by concerned women and literally kick up such a fuss that nobody can speak.

There has been literal instances of book burning over this (e.g. copies of Harry Potter). Calls to boycott Rowling and anything she supports. And the threats I have already mentioned, including ones considered by the British police to be credible physical threats against Rowling and her family.

The aim of all of this is to shut down certain speech.

2) Yes, a lot of people aren't interested in hearing her out.
And that includes you, does it? You assume you already know what her opinions and concerns are, without hearing what she herself actually has to say? And you're willing to pass judgment on her on the basis of what you've read about her, including the deluge of hate on the interwebs?
I am not interested in hearing a great many people out, for example, like Nazi sympathizers and Holocaust deniers.
How do you go about determining whether somebody is a Nazi sympathizer or a Holocaust denier? Second-hand rumors?

I suspect you feel the same way.
Not when it comes to judging people based on what a mob shouts about them.
Sure. She equates gender-affirming care to "conversion therapy" where gay people are threatened/abused/tortured to make them straight.
Does she?

Can you quote something from her in which she did that? Or is this just from the rumor mill?
She has claimed that allowing trans people to live their lives is the same as "erasing sex."
Quote, please.

One thing she has said (I'm paraphrasing here, to be clear) is that accepting that any man who self-identifies as a women must be a woman is effectively "erasing sex". One of her concerns is that there was legislation in front of the British parliament that would have let anybody calling themself a woman use woman's changerooms and restrooms, with no requirement for any medical diagnosis of gender dysphoria, or any medical interventions, hormone therapy, transitioning or anything else. Just the person's say-so.

Such a law would allow a male sexual predator to enter women-only spaces with impunity, if he were willing to say "I am a woman". And in case you imagine there have been no cases of men who identify as women sexually assaulting women in restrooms, I'm here to tell you that there have been (and Rowling is, too).

Perhaps you think that concerns for the safety of women in such spaces are just "loudly complaining" and that they shouldn't be taken seriously? People certainly shouldn't be allowed to discuss them publically, without being shouted down by a mob. Right?

On the broader issue, can I ask you: are sex and gender different? Has your personal Overton window moved to the position where you think sex is an outdated and irrelevant concept, such that we should dispense with it and just use gender, exclusively? That's what the radical leftist trans activists are arguing for, in effect.

What that would mean is that if one's self-proclaimed gender is male, then it doesn't matter if you have ovaries and a vagina and you menstruate and you can become pregnant. You're male because you say you are, and there's nothing more to be said. You're just a male who happens to have a vagina, etc.

Is that your position on these issues? Sex is redundant, passe, outdated and irrelevant?

If, on the other hand, you are not with those who want to "erase sex" and just have gender instead, then do you think that, perhaps, Rowling might have a point you haven't yet considered? Maybe you should hear her out.

Again, a similar claim would be to claim that allowing people to marry other races "erases race."
A similar claim would be me - a white dude - self-identifying as an African American man. If my self-identification is all that matters, how would this kind of thing not erase race"?

You probably think that "cultural appropriation" is a bad thing. If I were to "pretend" to be African American, you would probably have all kinds of concerns about that. But when it comes to men pretending to be women, you apparently don't have the same concerns. Why?

Many older people have trouble adjusting to the times; I've known several of them, including people in my family. Their Overton window simply cannot move that far. Younger people were born during a time when the Overton window has already moved; they grow up in a world where gay marriage and interracial marriage are simply the norm. Older people do not have that luxury.
To be clear: I'm only a few years younger than JK Rowling. I voted to legalise gay marriage in my country. I have never had any issues with interracial marriages. I also support trans people being able to live their lives in peace without fear of unfair discrimination.

I don't believe that sex and gender are the same thing.

You should not assume that everyone over a certain age is a conservative bigot. That's a big mistake to make.
 
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Unlike you Tiassa, I don't lump everything has the same.
Your way, you end up with women raping men.
There are women Trump supporters too.
According to some here, support Trump, then you should kill yourself because you may be a rapist too.

And once again, you prove your own point:

I really don't take this site too seriously, so I may reflect that.

It's one thing if you missed Parmalee's point, but nobody really believes that's what goes on. There is a reason why the anti-trans argument can only seek to intimidate and disconcert.

But your question to Parmalee↑ missed the point, and nobody really thinks that was an accident.

And your flailing distraction is its own point. People show us who they are when they hide behind this stuff. Those who need malice because they have no reasonable case to make, well, yeah, so they need malice. That's one of the reasons why supremacism is wrong, m'kay: It's malicious.

(There's a reason why ignorance reigns: It's harder to follow the propagandist's heroification if one must account for the malice. Like I asked before↑: Does nobody remember the bit where Rowling started deleting defamatory social media postings after starring in a very public harassment campaign against a female athlete for not being ladylike enough? It's not so much that they don't remember, but it's harder to pretend J.K. Rowling is some sort of hero when defending bullying as free speech, so they just skip over in hope of sustaining their desperate malice.)
 
Tiassa
Ms Rowling has not yet told anyone to “kill their self” for their views.
But, in your attempt to defend parmalee’s use of those same words, you both come across as absolute"killer" cancelists.
 
My opinion is that everyone is a bigot. No exceptions. It requires continual vigilance, awareness, and a lot of humility and empathy just to be civil. It's nothing new either, and it's not going to change. What I find difficult is when a person accuses another of thought crime, or , if you prefer, importunes intent. Because the implication is that they are omniscient or telepathic. If someone says to me "You make me furious" - they are empowering me with control over their emotion; it's uncomfortable because the accuser is disempowering themself. Interpretation is likewise an issue: some academic or another said "every reader is a rewriter" - while some of us may believe in one single truth, such a belief is far from being universal. If someone tells me that I'm a piece of goddam shit then that informs everyone more about them than it does about me.
 
My opinion is that everyone is a bigot. No exceptions.

That devalues the word "bigot". Everyone is prejudiced, that much I can agree with; most everyone has some supremacist tendency to guard against, but bigotry, by definition, includes obstinance and intolerance in the face of facts.

Insofar as "it requires continual vigilance, awareness, and a lot of humility and empathy just to be civil", not everyone is similarly predisposed toward that sort of awareness, nor similarly related to what that vigilance reveals. While, generally speaking, people are imperfect, bigotry and the circumstance of being a bigot are, by definition, particular.
 
That devalues the word "bigot". Everyone is prejudiced, that much I can agree with; most everyone has some supremacist tendency to guard against, but bigotry, by definition, includes obstinance and intolerance in the face of facts.

Insofar as "it requires continual vigilance, awareness, and a lot of humility and empathy just to be civil", not everyone is similarly predisposed toward that sort of awareness, nor similarly related to what that vigilance reveals. While, generally speaking, people are imperfect, bigotry and the circumstance of being a bigot are, by definition, particular.
We may have to agree to disagree! I am sure I can find one person in the world who considers me to be a bigot. There is no objective scale or measure for determining bigotry :- it's not subject to empirical analysis. We may stick to our opinions - even illogically or irrationally - but it might be that we do not consider logic or reason to be the foundation of our thinking, or even criteria for discussion. We may argue that feeling and emotional impact serve an illogical, irrational, but biological master.

Tolerance. Nearly everyone, when asked, consider themselves to be tolerant. In order to be tolerant though, we must be 100% tolerant of the intolerant - of those views that are diametrically opposed to our own. Being tolerant of views that we share isn't tolerance at all. But tolerance, again, doesn't mean we have to accept such views, or even consider them to have any potency. But we cannot argue from a common ground with those whose views differ from us. That's the point - there is no common ground. So, to be effective, we must ask, understand, and find a means using the language, basis, and position of those we dispute to demonstrate that their proposals are incoherent, incompabitble, or incomplete. Anything else, such as appealing to some higher understanding, or majority, or commonality, or consensus - does not persuade those who do not accept such appeals. It would be like using the Bible as an authority when talking to a Buddhist: It cannot work.

Saying that everyone is a thinker doesn't undervalue thinking. My feeling is that 'bigot', belongs to that part of the dictionary reserved for polemical vocabulary.
 
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My opinion is that everyone is a bigot. No exceptions. It requires continual vigilance, awareness, and a lot of humility and empathy just to be civil.
There is some truth to that. I'd amend it to "everyone starts as a bigot." Whether you remain a bigot or not depends on how hard you work to overcome that basic tendency towards homophily.
 
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