OK, Russ, I stepped back and reread your response. I see the confusion. Under currently accepted theory no mass is ever observed to pass the event horizon.
So you mis-stated your scenario. The part where you say "...such that the current golf ball external to the event horizon is 1.0 * 10^32" should be omitted, right?
You could replace that with "all of the golf balls ever dropped are visible, frozen, at the event horizon" or something like that, but it also works if you just end the sentence there.
If we change your scenario to say that they are all visible, frozen at the event horizon, then my answer changes to say no, I don't agree that that's the currently accepted understanding of what happens.
That means golf ball # 1.0*10^32 will never pass through the EH from time T to T_infinitefuture. If you can accept this, then you must also accept that golf balls with lesser numbers must also not have crossed the EH in the past. You are claiming that currently accepted theory states that they would have crossed the event horizon in the past, causing R to grow, but this is not what the theory says. It is a contradiction.
Ehem, if it isn't what the theory says, then it can't be a contradiction in the theory, it can only be a contradiction between what the theory says and what you believe. I see what you are getting at though. You are trying to say that the current mainstream explanation simultaneously holds that:
1. Outside observers never see objects cross the event horizon.
2. Outside observers see objects cross the event horizon.
Obviously, that would be a contradiction. So, the resolution? #1 is wrong and #2 is what scientists actually think. How can this be when #1 is written in the wiki and appears in a lot of places? It's an oversimplification. It doesn't account for the fact that if mass is piling-up at the event horizon, it must grow. Similar simplifications are given for the benefit of laypeople often in science. For example:
If you drop a feather and a bowling ball toward Earth, in a vacuum, from the same height, which hits the Earth first? They hit the Earth at the same time, right? Wrong. The bowling ball hits first. Do you know why?
Basically, you keep tripping over yourself here because you're trying to have it both ways with this contradiction: Scientists should believe it because it is how GR works, but they don't believe it so they are wrong about how GR works and wrong to think there is no contradiction since the contradiction that doesn't exist does exist.
Yah, got it.
You most certainly didn't. In particular, you neglected to respond to the entire rest of my post where I discuss the problems with your claim! Starting with where I said
"That [your] explanation is not self-consistent.