I am glad that you are attempting to formalize a little the dumbed down version of the problem. Since you are so intent on solving the dumbed down version instead of the realistic one, I'll solve this version for you.
First off, there are THREE frames of reference that you must consider, not TWO:
$$S"=$$ the frame of the train car
$$S'=$$ the frame of the falling rod
$$S=$$ the frame of the platform
There are two speeds that we need to consider:
$$v'=(0,-u)$$ the speed between $$S'$$ and $$S"$$
$$v=(V,0)$$ the speed between $$S$$ and $$S'$$
This is a classical problem of ______.
The angle made by the rod with the floor of the car , in the frame of the car $$S"$$ is $$\theta"$$.
The angle made by the rod with the platform , in the frame of the platform is $$\theta$$.
Form the description of Thomas precession:
$$tan(\theta)=\frac{v'}{v \gamma(v)}$$
$$tan(\theta")=\frac{v'\gamma(v')}{v}$$
So:
$$\tan(\theta")=tan(\theta) \gamma(v)\gamma(v')$$
Since $$\tan(\theta")=0$$ it follows $$tan(\theta)=0$$.
In other words:
$$\theta"=0 => \theta=0$$
QED.
Thanks for the notes on Thomas precession - they're very clear! Unfortunately, I don't think this is correct. The $$\theta$$ in Thomas precession refers to the direction of motion of the double-Lorentz-transformed reference frame relative to the original reference frame. In our case, that makes it the direction of motion of the bar in the platform frame. This is not the same as the angle the bar itself makes with the ground. It's not clear to me how one would include the angle of the bar in Thomas precession (maybe divide the bar up into a string of point particles and treat each separately?), but this isn't the right way.
In counterpoint, I'll try to formalize something people have been posting for a while now. Let's say for argument that if the bar forms an angle $$\phi$$ with the floor in the platform frame,
$$\phi=0$$
when it hits the floor like you've been saying. As you've acknowledged, since the bar doesn't "know" in advance where the floor is, this solution must be independent of height, that is:
$$\phi(h)=0$$
for all h. The bar is falling straight down, so
h is a one-to-one function of
t (to be precise, let's say
t the time since the second wire was cut in the platform frame). We can just as easily write $$\phi$$ as a function of
t, and take the limit as
t goes to zero:
$$\lim_{t \to 0^+}\phi(t)=0$$
This means that $$\phi$$ must be zero (ie. the bar must be parallel to the floor) at the moment of release. This in turn means that, between when the first wire is cut and the second is cut, the bar must hover motionless in place, because any rotation during that time would make $$\phi\neq0$$. This is absurd; a metal bar pinned to an inertial reference frame at only one end will rotate under gravity, whether we use GR or SR. The puzzle, then, is not whether the two ends of the bar hit at different times, but how the two ends can hit at different times without deforming the final shape of the bar. I'm inclined to buy Janus' explanation for this.