even as someone who has had paranormal experiences can be still skeptical of ones they have not experienced. for instance, whenever i read or hear about the ouija board and how the planchet moves by itself or flys around, i have to muffle a laugh because that is hard for me to believe.
i bought one once just to try it out and of course, it didn't move at all, unless you move the thing to answer your own questions, which is bullshit. i don't even see what the possible fun or even element of a possibliity of any other force or medium to be.
still, i can't say that other's different experience is impossible because i don't know what variables or forces are involved in each situation perhaps.
there are other details that can differ between people's experiences that make one or both suspicious of the validity or sincerity.
for instance, i hear this 'cold spot' or 'drop in temperature' a lot from others which makes me suspicious and i didn't experience at all. actually, it was more of a buzz or heavy, often, uncomfortable density in the air as if the air was thick itself and something was cloying etc. nothing to do with temperature.
it's interesting the various ways people pick up information. i think some people just are more intuitive than others or don't discount subtle info as easily as others. some don't consider any info unless it's blatant as well.
i did have one significant experience as an adult but this was not anything threatening or evil that i could tell, unlike the dark or more sinister shadow figures i experienced around those violent people. this wasn't something i could literally see as those, this one was more of a felt presence.
the part that i remember though that is of importance or of actual note more than the actual event was what i picked up initially which i didn't even consider at the time to be anything but my imagination but it may not have been. this was not my room and the first time i had been there. i remember at first, my back was to the wall and i looked up near the window and thought that i had a random 'thought' that some male was looking out that window and immediately dismissed it. this thought had a lot of details, as i just 'knew' it wasn't just that once. it was recurring like his post and a fixture of the room. that was instantaneous info out of nowhere. a subsequent event happened that compellingly indicated that thought was not my imagination at all but i find it interesting how i think our minds can pick up info that we dismiss as nothing or mere imagination when sometimes it may not be.