But having said that, I will agree with you that people shouldn't go around willfully trying to burst other people's bubbles. That's inhumane, at the very least. It's also arrogant, since it assumes that the bubble-burster is intellectually superior to the individual in the bubble.
That's why I strongly and viscerally oppose religious missionaries, people who invade foreign cultures and try to subvert and destroy the beliefs of the people that they find there. Christians and Muslims are notorious for this.
And it's why I also strongly and viscerally oppose militant atheists when they gratuitously attack religion and religious people, and when they strut around like mindless little roosters, all puffed-up with the illusion of their own intellectual superiority.
So your solution is to maintain the status quo, then? To allow religion to dominate the conversation, to capitulate to them when they attack science and when they promote violence? To pretend that its persecution of homosexuals is just?
What you view as "gratuitous attacks" is just the pushback against fundamentalism.
That is an interesting idea though. I don't think that I agree with it, but it isn't totally indefensible either.
I'm imagining a doctor, who discovers that a patient has an incurable disease. The patient will feel fine and be without symptoms for maybe six months, and then will decline and be dead in a year. Should the doctor tell the patient that he's dying, and cast a dark cloud over those six remaining pain-free months? Or should the doctor say nothing and let the patient live happily during the time he has left?
Of course it's indefensible. People have a right to get their affairs in order. And your intellectual immaturity is on full display when you simply presume that someone can't find happiness while knowing that they're going to die.