My religion does not have any thing to do if my wife becomes belligerent to me, Women that I have gone trough their temper was not the easiest, I have not unleashed my hand ,but I did subdue them putting them on the ground so they would not have their hands upon me. Now if that wife of mine would had the fear or respect to God she would not be belligerent. There are many women in their anger do a lot of damage . I believe if they dont have fear of God , then they respect force , I don't mean damege them but restrain them by force until you can reason with them .
So you admit to abusing your wife?
Tell me, how often do you feel the need to physically force your wife to the ground and restrain her with force until she does what you want her to do?
Don't you get the message . The more secular the society becomes the less stable the society becomes . And secular society is farther alienated from God's commandments .
Why marriages become miserable ? Does tolerance have some to do with that ? If we are less tolerant , does not that tells us that we are more selfish,
Considering you just admitted to physically abusing your wife, and you are supposedly a god fearing man, and a secular society views domestic abuse to be illegal and immoral, I must ask, to whom are you appealing to here?
Nonsense A wife is a wife , she is a pillar of the family , it requires wisdom to be a wife , she is the manager of the family. If her mother did not teach her how to be a wife , the she is going to be a misfit , and cause problem.
How is one a wife?
Obedient? Perhaps you should buy yourself a trained dog instead?
How should a mother teach her daughter to be a wife to an abusive dickwad like you?
Should the mother teach the daughter how to hide the bruises that men like you will leave on her if she isn't obedient?
I believe thinks are taken with different mentality in mind . In those time women were married at very young age , perhaps even at the age of 12 or 14 . Think if you marrie a girl at the age of 12 or 13 would you not have to mold her . They are not born mature
Now if a woman is not mature at the age of 25 . So what you have
I think the greater majority of men would feel revulsion at imagining marrying a child.
Hey that wife of mine was not battered . You don't know the circumstances and how things are done . You really have drawn conclusion far far out
Forcing your wife to the ground and using physical force to restrain her as you described does make her a battered woman.
You are projecting yourself . I was born in East Europe and raised in South America . Our mentality and way of thinking are way different , I am happy with my way and you can stay happy with your ,
Stability I mean family stability and closeness
Are you suggesting that you were raised to physically abuse your wife?
Look I am not advocating for violence I said that before . But What happen within the family that is nobodies business The government does supports the family , now if someone in the family chooses not to be part of the family then they invite the government and that is how is done here ( by not pressing charges )
We had over 100 apartment and there all sorts of incidences in families , If things would be as you guy portray the law and the enforcement tho government would broke .You are forgetting also with in the family violence the is some love also were one forgives the other .
Domestic violence is a crime. If you commit a crime (and you have by your own admittance), you are a criminal and that is very much the State's business.
Men who beat their wives often profess to love their wives as well. Forcing someone to live in absolute fear and obedience and failure to comply results in physical abuse, such as what you did to your wife, is a crime.
Children should be correct if necessary that does not mean in permanent physical harm , thing should be done in a kind way
How do you physically abuse someone kindly?
I mentioned in # 68 I am not advocating violence , but your attitude is as if I am beating my wife and killing my kids which are bigger and stronger then myself.
I do support that children have to be corrected if necessary with a belt I don't need government interference , and the government messed up one of my boys in the military training.
Since you are so concerned about punishment . why is the government punishes us with all sort of useless laws so as to make easy to take away our earning.
You have admitted to physically assaulting your wife if she does not do as you say and to beating your children with a belt.
You are an abuser and thus, violent by nature. Whether you advocate violence is beside the point. You are a domestic abuser.